When Christmas Doesn't Feel Very "Merry"

December 6, 2024

We often have an idealized and romanticized picture of the days leading up to the first Christmas.

We see Christmas cards and nativity scenes, and we assume those days were stress-free. I mean, it always looks peaceful in the pictures. But that’s far from how those involved in the first Christmas actually felt.

Look, the people of the Bible were just that… people. They were ordinary people just like me and you. They didn’t know how everything would turn out. They had real feelings. They didn’t know how the story ended. This turned their world UPSIDE DOWN.

The very first Christmas didn’t start out as a merry time for most of those involved. There was a lot going on for those involved as the story unfolded in real time.

·      Mary was confused and worried. An angel had told her that she would give birth to the Son of God. She didn’t know what would happen to her engagement. Her future seemed bleak.

·      Joseph was hurt and brokenhearted. His fiancée had told him that she was pregnant and he knew it wasn’t his.

·      The shepherds were afraid. They saw a bright light and watched angels appear out of nowhere.

·      The wise men were exhausted. They traveled a long way to get to Jesus. They were ready for rest.

You may be in similar shoes this Christmas. You may feel confused, hurt, afraid, or simply exhausted.

What does this Christmas story have to say to you?

Over the next few devotionals, I’ll go deeper into how each of these central characters in the Christmas story responded to their circumstances—and how God changed everything for them in response.

But they all have one thing in common: They turned to God.

The Bible says, “Return to the Lord your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love, and he relents from sending calamity” (Joel 2:13 NIV).

No matter what you’re going through, God loves you. When you turn to God, he won’t turn away.

On that very first Christmas, every one of these characters turned to God. They all looked to him to meet their greatest needs. Their world was turned upside down, but they looked UP to God for guidance and direction when they couldn’t see where the story was going.

God was there for Mary, Joseph, the shepherds, and the wise men.

He’ll be there for you, too.